Tag: Intimacy


  • There’s no such thing as normal: 13 essential lessons about sex from two decades of Sexual Healing

    There’s no such thing as normal: 13 essential lessons about sex from two decades of Sexual Healing

    Introduction: Reframing what “normal” means in sex What if normal isn’t a destination but a moving target shaped by culture, experience, and personal comfort? In a column that has spent twenty years answering readers’ intimate questions, the recurring insight is clear: sex is nuanced, diverse, and deeply personal. The idea of a universal standard for…

  • There’s no normal: 13 essential sex lessons from 20 years of Sexual Healing

    There’s no normal: 13 essential sex lessons from 20 years of Sexual Healing

    Introduction: redefining normal in sex Sex isn’t a one-size-fits-all experience. After two decades of answering readers’ questions in Sexual Healing, one lesson stands out: there’s no single normal when it comes to sex. People vary in desires, bodies, readiness, and boundaries. The goal isn’t to chase a universal standard but to understand what works for…

  • Sex File: Has Commitment Quieted the Spark After No-Strings Sex?

    Sex File: Has Commitment Quieted the Spark After No-Strings Sex?

    Introduction: The science behind the spark Many couples report a shift in intensity after transitioning from casual, no-strings sex to a more committed relationship. Scientists point to a cocktail of neurochemicals—oxytocin, norepinephrine, and dopamine—that fuel attraction and bonding. When you’re in love or sharing intimate moments with someone you’re drawn to, these chemicals light up…

  • Sex File: Does Commitment Douse the Spark After Great No-Strings Sex?

    Sex File: Does Commitment Douse the Spark After Great No-Strings Sex?

    Why the Spark Feels Different When Commitment Arrives Many couples report that the heat of a no-strings, casual arrangement fades when commitment enters the picture. But is this a simple switch in mood, or a deeper shift in brain chemistry? Researchers compare the rush of romance to a cocktail of brain chemicals—oxytocin, dopamine, and norepinephrine—that…

  • Pugacheva on Passion in Marriage with Galkin

    Pugacheva on Passion in Marriage with Galkin

    Introduction to Pugacheva and Galkin’s Marriage In 2011, renowned Russian singer Alla Pugacheva married comedian Maxim Galkin, marking her fifth and final marriage. Their love story, however, began years earlier, with the couple first publicly acknowledging their relationship in 2008. Through the ups and downs of their journey, Pugacheva has always been vocal about many…

  • Alla Pugacheva on Passion in Marriage with Maxim Galkin

    Alla Pugacheva on Passion in Marriage with Maxim Galkin

    Alla Pugacheva’s Insights on Love After 50 Famed Russian singer Alla Pugacheva shared her thoughts on maintaining passion in relationships after the age of 50. Despite societal stereotypes suggesting that excitement dwindles with age, Pugacheva’s experience indicates otherwise. Having married comedian Maxim Galkin in 2011, their union demonstrates that personal joy and intimacy can flourish…

  • Love After 50: Alla Pugacheva and Maxim Galkin’s Journey

    Love After 50: Alla Pugacheva and Maxim Galkin’s Journey

    Introduction: Love Knows No Age Alla Pugacheva, a legendary figure in the Russian music scene, has proven that love and passion don’t have to fade with age. Married to comedian Maxim Galkin since 2011, their relationship is a testament to enduring romance and intimacy even after the age of 50. Initial Sparks: A Romance That…