Tribute to an incredible family man
Ashford United FC is mourning the loss of a much-loved club steward who passed away seven weeks after being diagnosed with motor neurone disease (MND). Dave Chalmers, described by his family as an “incredible family man” with a wit that never dimmed, touched the lives of countless fans, players, and volunteers who knew him across the community surrounding the ground.
Dave’s wife, Natalie, spoke of the tremendous impact he had both on and off the pitch. While the news of his diagnosis came as a shock, those who knew him say his resilience and sense of humour remained a beacon of light through a difficult time. The club has asked supporters and the wider football community to remember him not just for his service on match days, but for the warmth and generosity he brought to every interaction.
What MND means for Dave’s family and the club
Motor neurone disease is a progressive neurological condition that affects the nerves in the brain and spinal cord, gradually weakening the muscles a person needs to move, speak, eat, and breathe. The swift progression from diagnosis to passing is a stark reminder of the cruel reality faced by families confronting MND. In this case, the seven-week period between diagnosis and Dave’s death has magnified the heartbreak for Natalie and their loved ones, who now carry forward his memory and the values he embodied.
For Ashford United FC, Dave’s death leaves a void in the heart of a club where volunteers like him are the lifeblood. Stewards play a vital role in match-day safety, fan experience, and the smooth operation of events. The loss reverberates through the stands and across the broader football community who’ve come to rely on the commitment of volunteers who treat every game with care and dedication.
A community rallying around a beloved figure
Messages of condolence have poured in from fans, teammates, and colleagues who recall Dave’s unwavering kindness, his practical jokes that could lift a crowd, and his tireless willingness to help. In times like these, supporters rally around those who give their time so generously, turning personal grief into collective tribute through charity matches, fundraiser social media posts, and club-sanctioned memorials.
Dave’s family has asked for privacy as they navigate their loss, but their willingness to share his story highlights the human side of football culture—the way it brings people together in both celebration and sorrow. The club has expressed gratitude for the outpouring of support and reiterated its commitment to supporting families affected by MND and other life-changing illnesses.
What comes next for Ashford United and fans
While there are no plans to diminish the memories of a steward who gave so much, there is a growing call within football to raise awareness of MND and to support research and care for those living with the disease. Clubs across the country continue to host awareness campaigns, fundraising events, and community initiatives that honour individuals like Dave while driving forward practical support for families currently navigating a diagnosis.
Fans visiting Ashford United FC grounds may notice moments of reflection on future matchdays—quiet tributes, memory posts, and opportunities to make charitable donations in Dave’s memory. In time, the club hopes to channel the collective grief into ongoing acts of kindness that reflect Dave’s spirit and the values he stood for: community, generosity, and a love for the game that binds people together.
Remembering Dave Chalmers
In celebrating Dave’s life, supporters are invited to share memories and messages of condolence. The legacy he leaves behind—an “incredible family man” who never lost his humour, even in the face of uncertainty—remains a testament to the power of football to unite and heal communities during the toughest times.
